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Face Me; I Book You!: The Arts and Asocial Media
Amatoritsero Ede
“If the poet can no longer speak for society,
but only for himself, then we are at the last ditch”
– Henry Miller
I remember setting up a Facebook profile with great reluctance a few years ago. I did not put up a single picture there for two years and I screened myself off with a pseudonym. Otherwise, any evil eye could peep into my soul or sitting room at will through the window of social media – never mind the much-vaunted self-protection modules on the site. All it would take is a hacker-style breach of all privacy protocols. Still, “resistance is futile” in the age of social media – particularly if you need it as a tool or do not want to risk ending up as a twenty-first century Luddite.
My creative activities eventually unmasked me and I am now a regular denizen of that cyber world even though I inhabit that space strictly for its utility. But a recent strange encounter from the most unexpectedly irritating of sources – another creative writer – confirms my suspicions in ways far in excess of my original worries and leads me to question the artist’s sense of social commitment in an age of the “global babble” that social media is.
Before going into the details of the macabre encounter I want to elaborate on the reasons for my initial aversion to social media because it has import for the event itself. Apart from possible unbidden intrusions there is the tendency for great miscommunication due to ‘interference,’ where messages, instant or not, get twisted en route, especially without the mediation of a face-to-face. Another irritant is the twin staple of vanity and narcissism deriving from the manic self-importance reflected off the mirror of social media. This sickening almost perverse self-love is further exaggerated by that insidious illusion of instant familiarity called the ‘friends list.’ While all these can reduce the full grown adult to a blubbering, self-worshipping infant and egomaniac, it also leaves room for unwarranted abuse, harassment, intimidation, and bullying or cowardly attacks from behind an impersonal computer monitor. The last is precisely what I suffered in a surreal encounter this past week in the hands of a pretend friend and Internet Tiger – apologies to Pius Adesanmi – on Facebook.
I must say I had completely buried my social media phobia and was oblivious till the devil himself violently tapped me on the shoulder with his spiked trident: “You’re an asshole, Amatoritsero, a total, fucking and complete asshole. Fuck you and everything you stand for. Fuck you. Fuck you. Fuck you.” Those were the devil’s deranged words in a private Facebook message to a ‘virtual’ stranger. Let us keep in mind that I have never met him in real life, never had any conversation beyond a few hellos across the ether in several years. I did not know how to react to this bolt from the daemonic blue and wondered if it is not an example of that miscommunication of which I was wary. Otherwise, I seriously suspect that this apparently high-strung writer might be on drugs. ‘Give the devil the benefit of the doubt,’ I thought. ‘He may be coming down from a hard dose of cocaine or has had a bad day in hell.’ So I ask him calmly:
“Why this unwarranted attack; I am mystified?”
And he responds sharply:
“I only say to you here in a private message what I could not say to you in public. The so-called ‘attack’ is due to your insularity. How can you not know Keziah Jones!”
This is when I remembered that several hours earlier and for the first time ever I wrote on the devil’s Facebook wall, asking him who the artist in a video still he posted a short while earlier was. His irritated response had been: “Keziah Jones, of course! Google him. Don’t tell me you don’t know Keziah Jones!” Now in light of the vicious verbal assault in a private message, I wondered why, if at all, I needed to know Keziah Jones, who seems to be the devil’s alter ego.
I turn to my horned pretend friend himself for answers. I examine his life and work. He is Nigerian, like his alter ego, the musician. Both of them are expatriated – my wicked antagonist to London, and the other to London as well and then Paris. Another common bond between both is that they are vicarious entertainers. Apart from writing fiction, the devil struts his stuff on the stage like the musician does. Both are theatrical. And what this kind of absurd theatre does is to merely entertain in a world going through paroxysms – a tumultuous Middle East, racism, the Israel/Palestine debacle, a wayward global economy, environmental pollution and the threat of extinction from nuclear proliferation. Not in any of the devil’s novels or plays do I find a tissue of social conscience. A huge moral hole plunges through his writings. As for his alter ego’s music, surely it is neither fringed by the firebrand activism of a Fela, nor does it have the philosophical depth of a Bob Marley. These kinds of art are Sunday distractions for somnambulist petit bourgeoisie; transient art, which like bubble gum, is chewed, enjoyed, and spat out.
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Ah, we’ve all been there. The grumpy facebook stalker. I suppose being a target can be flattering. It’ll be interesting to see how the big-name writers of today engage in e-fueding. Can you imagine if Truman Capote had twitter?
In a time where many are quick to adopt a relativist standpoint when considering art, everyone can now call themselves an artist. As you point out, this thinking stultifies art itself. We all know real art when we encounter it because we become inspired. Since art doesn’t become so unless it is viewed by others, art isn’t just expression for its own sake, but rather a socially conscious endeavor to make society reflect on itself. Once an artist negates this duty, as ‘your little ‘devil’ and many have, we are left with uninspiring prose, poetry, paintings and the like. You seem to have captured, quite succinctly, this deontic malaise that has infected the arts as of late. Canada spends millions on the arts, but where are the great Canadian artists? There is something wrong, especially with all that funding, when we cannot think of the Shakespeare or Monet of our time.
Your Henry Miller quotation hit the nail. This individual hides behind a so-called “writer” title but a leopard cannot change his spots. Whatever his insecurities are, he took his anger on you.
Nobel Laureate Wole Soyinka complains of the religious extremists: “I’m right; you’re dead!” The social media can indeed be menacing. The joy is that there are writers like our editor who stands his ground against all affronts. Amatoritsero obviously takes no prisoners, and one indeed waits with bated breath if his antagonist should come charging back. A tough slanging match fits well with the literary adrenalin.
I think it timely,this call to all artists to remember the reason why, in these days, we are artists. In the age of instant communication and instant obsolescence of the message,some tropes still matter.
Facebook is life; life is Facebook, darkness, light and all. I would never have ‘met” beautiful spirits like you and virtually all who have commented here without the Internet. Like life, I take Facebook for what it is worth, warts and all. I love Facebook and twitter and everything else on the Internet. Because I met you, my friend that I have never ever met 😉
The act of hiding is revealing….
Spot on Amatoritsero! I think you are a little unfair on Keziah Jones however. No one can compare to Fela or BM, but his music is funky and articulate and full of thought.
Whoever the writer is – they are a full balloon in need of a prick. Perhaps then they will fizzle off into irrelevance..
With the onset of social networking the pillars of our community have no borders. They are no longer divided into mapped territories. There is no space and time continuum. No voyage in the dark. There is no inner or outer space of forgetting. There are records, history and a substantial memory that is only a mouse click away. The country of our tongue no longer has to be framed on cold lines. Facebook if it is a beast is a sexy beast inhabited by the cells of ghosts, celebrity, art and souls.
What we want is information, chemistry even if it is not reality (that is what makes us human – our cumulative progress in the scheme of things). There are no feelings of abandonment, neglect, loneliness, peer pressure and isolation on Facebook. How ‘it’ has survived is not extraordinary but how will we, the fragile human race survive without it, without the potential of advancing technology and for a lot of people it means freedom to express themselves, who they truly are without putting up a masked front and with that element right there, that is the genius of social networking.
to respond to someone like that is wasted energy ! shows no respect for others ! Facebook is social network not to be used for being rude and cras !! Know that u r indeed the Better person !! delete and block such negativity !! karma !!
Ama, as “digital-immigrants,” we have to constantly learn to navigate the crazy world of social media! What an interesting tale. I laughed so hard. I hope it’s ok to laugh. 🙂